And a little funny background so that maybe you understand her personality.
a couple of years ago, we had "the talk". We covered the birds and the bees quite extensively. After the talk was over, I gave her a minor lecture that she could talk to me, her step dad or her aunts about anything, but she was not to share this information with her friends. I told her that all mommies want to have this talk in their own time and that she should not be sharing it. What did she do? The very next day she snuck the book I used to school and sat down with it at the picnic table and gave 5 little girls "the talk".
There were alotta phone calls I had to make that night. No matter what I want or like, my daughter is not one for secrets. Although mortifying, it still makes me giggle.