Yep. When I kept talking myself into staying, I asked myself what a "normal" person would do in my shoes, made a list and just went down the list. I didn't let myself think about things, or doubt my actions, I just acted. I cancelled services, I opened and closed various accounts, I did not give him any mula for booze, I had our lease reassigned, etc etc. Eventually, my thinking fell in line with my actions.