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PickMe Hard to go to counseling when you don't have insurance. I have been unemployed for 3 years. I AM looking for a job but there are not many out there in my state (and no, I cannot move, not until July 2012).
I have downgraded this relationship to friends with benefits. I may downgrade it to "nothing" in a few days. I cannot take this stress. I need my life back.
Getting your life back sounds like a good plan. If I couldn't go to therapy, I would get myself to Al-anon. Every time I go, it is SUCH a relief and I leave feeling relaxed and able to tackle whatever it is in my life that needs to be tackled.
I hope today is brighter and comes with some clarity for you.