Originally Posted by
tallulah 
It sounds like you need to talk this out with him then.. if there is some resentment about reciprocity, his timing regarding telling you etc.
To a third party, it seems like most of your anger is about you and 'picking another addict'. I don't know the guy, so no idea if he's a recovery success story.. if he is, doesn't that mean your radar is working (?). If you know in your heart it (your picking tool) has failed you and this relationship is going to make you unhappy.. then there really is only one option.
Tx
To the powers that be on this board, please delete me and anything I have said. I didn't come here to hear how wrong I am. I KNOW I am wrong. Who else would be other than me.
I will figure this out on my own. The same way I figure everything out on my own.