Sorry to be a pest but I'm new and learning. How do I handle the next day when he is sober and acting like nothing happened? Do i talk to him without contempt.Do I ignore him? I'm conflicted.To say nothing about his actions doesn't seem right ,but neither does acting like nothing happened at all.I do not know how to handle basic communication when he sobers up. Also how do you overlook the "no apology" part? I'm trtying to detach. but that is hard after being Attached for 20 years.