I wanted to respond to your response. The best way I feel, you can halp your Daughter avoid some of the pitfalls,(that I did not) is to above all teach her the importance of Honesty. Teach her to be honest with herself, and you and that let her know that you will always be honest with her.
And most importantly that she can tall you anything!
That way if her father ever tries to get her to "keep secrets" for him, hopefully she will know that it is wrong and will come talk to you!
Its the secrets and lies, and never knowing what's real or imagined that keeps people like me, so much longer to figure out the difference between a healthy relationship and when we are just being used.
Best of luck on your parenting journey!