Can I just say, Talulah...
...that not only is this dead nuts on, but I love your sense of humor and how you use the language.
Thanks,
Cyranoak
P.s. Still laughing.
Originally Posted by
tallulah 
You're 7 months in (?). The facade is slipping and now you are seeing who he really is: controlling; petulant; verbally aggressive; emotionally unstable; irrational.
Run... in the opposite direction... quickly.
Tx
ETA: You can wring the alcohol out of an abusive asshat.. but you still got an abusive asshat.