Sending you strength and fortitude for the next part of your journey.
I to remember that switch. It was another level of the same ending I guess. I had a tiny fantasy left in my head, even after we were getting divorced, that 'some day down the road when recovery happened' we could make it work. People shared stories of that.
Well, I was never afraid he'd hurt me physically but I did see where he would go when the going got rough so to speak. I could never, ever again, partner up with someone that could do that.