66Angel,
Your story sounds so familiar! Before we moved, my AH was the highest functioning alchoholic I've ever seen! And it never interfered with our lives, except when I would bring it up. As I said in my post, I got him to a "manageable amt"
so I thought. But, now, its so far out of control. I never thought I'd be living life hanging on by a thread, wondering where my next meal is coming from.
I don't know if every alchohlic does infact get worse, but if I had it to do over again, I wouldn't wait to find out.
Like that analogy of the frog slowly boiling.... right now I'm being cooked alive but its too late too scream!