Hi Winter and welcome to SR!
I hope you'll find some resources here that you can use.
Have you considered a program of recovery
such as AlAnon?
This would be a great way to start in your F2F world.
Thing is -=
the reason I say that right off the bat, that is -
we're talking about a relationship
with an known alcoholic for seven years.
That's a lot to be undone.
Or learned from.
Or moved beyond.
Whatever.
Whether you stay together or not
it's hard to see clearly
what this relationship has cost
without the outside input.
Others will be along shortly to welcome you to the forum!