Originally Posted by
Kjell 
You're 100% right and I guess I should have added that I'm mainly looking for a template.
My sponsor is going to help me with this too and I was hoping for a little help from my SR friends too.
Kjell
I would forget the template-- pray on it -- invite God in and, like inventory, use the pen as a spiritual translator after you pray.
Be clear on your mistakes, ask if you missed anything or if there is any way you harmed her that you're not aware of, and ask what can be done to make this right.