Originally Posted by
vvl71w 
Unfortunately I cannot simply walk away
Harsh honesty here: You can. You choose not to.
Originally Posted by
vvl71w I truly fear what would become of my wife
You are not responsible for your wife and her choices.
SHE IS.
She has clearly made hers. I suspect you are here because you know way deep down inside you somewhere, it is time for you to make yours, even though you do not like your choices.
Fact is those are your choices: Keep on keepin on or not.
