Coffee Drinker..I would like to say, Thank You!!!
I told him I could NOT be the supportive wife, who made sure he ate, showered, worked, followed his steps and clapped every time he went to a meeting.
I have become a bird without wings and without legs (HE ATE THEM OFF)
...All I had left was my deadly beek that pecked him if he came near me.
This bird could no longer support him, I am too tired and have nothing left.
He has left now and its time for me heal....
But now that he is not here to attack me, I can support his decision
on moving & healing himself. I can do that with love & compassion, for me!!
I guess you would say, its part of my healing also. I guess you can call me a
great supporter, just a bad bad babysitter...lol
I was up front and honest with him...There are no guranatees to this marriage lasting, only a guranatee that I will support him for making correct decisions for himself.
One of my #1 boundaries: Actions before any Words!!!!!