Originally Posted by
LaTeeDa 
Welcome to SR. Glad you found us.
In regards to the above, unfortunately I don't see your situation as strange at all. In fact, it's quite typical. The thing I see as different than most of us is that you are seeking help much earlier in the process than many of us (including me) did.
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I guess what makes me feel strange is that my wife is an absolute beast when it comes to marathon/fitness training. She is a high performing professional. She is an awesome mother. But has ZERO control over how the drinking impacts herself or me. And the only consistency to it is she goes 4 or 5 weeks with no problems then BAM, episode-fight-excuse-apology, then another 4 or 5 or 6 weeks with no problems then BAM, again. Soooo, I can't get my finger on the pulse or the warning signs.