I think before you follow through on this idea, you should give yourself a day or two and do one thing:
Get the book Why does he do that? by Lundy Bancroft
You can find several chapter on google books.
Take a few minutes and begin to read this. I think it will empower you where you are feeling none of that at the moment.
I think it will help you come up with a plan that is less harmful to yourself.
40 days ago, I left an Abusive Alcoholic Husband who came close to killing me on several occasions. He made sexual advances toward my daughter and was going to make that encounter happen.
I was not able to do it alone. I had my sister help me.
I understand you wanting to fight for your home. However, when he gets out of jail, guess where he is coming?
A judge can stop that.
Take a deep breath, know that I am on your side, and have been where you are. The grass, here, far away from that, really is greener, my friend.
Give yourself some time to formulate a plan that is long lasting, and protects you.
YOU DESERVE THAT...GIVE IT TO YOURSELF....... 