That is just your over active, big brain working overtime. It's seems to be a common problem we have. The dumb ones would never have put up with what we do.
So instead of setting yourself up for an arse kicking, which is never fun, try this.
Pack a bag and walk out the door. You don't need anyone to justify it for you. It matters not what you do or say, he will do or say what ever he feels like. You know he will lie about what ever happens. You know he will say anything.
Just leave. I know it is harder than it sounds. But it sounds a whole lot better than your plan.
Leave tonight. Stop off at a Library in the morning and find your local domestic violence place. They have taxpayer paid lawyers on retainer to help you kick his rotten arse out of your house. Then you move back in.
Or, plan A.
You decide.