your in al anon? good i hope you have a sponsor or many people there you can talk too...they have expereinced alot also, someone here and there has your story....
this is what you need....BOUNDARIES...its your recovery and your childrens..nothing more...I would not give her your car...heck no! that would be 1 boundary...take the keys away....she can see the kids when SOBER, and the in laws? they need al anon also...ooh and the money, use a different account now...its time, you need to look out for you and your kids ....
keep posting and asking questions, but if you can get to a meeting...the more you do, the more it works for YOU to the advantage...
