BoobyJ -
I would suggest no contact for awhile. I don't like to give direction but all this quacking-sh*t just inflames an already ugly situation.
I'm going to try some of my own advice - trickier since we are under the same roof ... but he just told me he deserves better ... wow.
We need to remember to detach. I'm past detaching with love.
Don't answer his calls or texts. If there is an emergency - establish a person for him to call that will then call you. Don't stoop to his level of badgering and arguing.
This weeks goal: No chaos, detach and find some serenity. We deserve it
