Originally Posted by
SoloMio 
Chickory, I just want to offer you hugs. I know you might feel cornered by your circumstances, but you have gotten wonderful advice here. I really like Learn2Live's insight about our children--it's true.
I always try to live by Kahlil Gibran's words "On Children":
beautiful poem , thank you SoloMio
Please try to see that doing for our children stops being a blessing when it stunts their growth.
I see that this is true.
Hope you're feeling less hopeless today, Chickory!
You guys always give me hope. But I do think I am going to need some help in getting him out, whether finding an alanon, or going to some counselling, if i can find the right place. bad counsel is worse than no counsel.
love you all.