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Old 02-18-2011, 01:27 PM
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keepinon
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AHH Chicory it's the old..nothing changes if nothing changes..what kind of life does your son have now? Has letting him stay there , verbally abuse you, steal drugs from his sister, helped?Is he getting the help you insisted he get so you didn't put him out last time?Was there ever any follow through there?
Yes..he sounds like he may have Aspergers or something like that..if he likes the drugs for his"nerves" so much, you think he'd be running to the doctor for an eval.
He DOES have every characterisitc of an alcoholic..the pity pot..woe is me..will use other drugs when alcohol becomes not available.
Why would things have gotten better with no treatment?It won't ..it will stay the same or deterioate as long as you let it continue..why is it up to you?Because you are the enabler..the last one left standing.Give him a chance at a life..let him go...or don't, and accpept this as your fate.
When YOU hit YOUR bottom, and TRULY surrender, things will get better...
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