Hi Ukiah, my story is very similar. My AH has caused problems off and on in the past, but nothing horrible. In Dec he got a DUI with some other things attached and has quit drinking on his own. He is not interested in this site, or AA. He has not had a drink since, and is doing well, occasionally will get moody, but all in all, so far so good. He told me he was done drinking before I got the chance to tell him that I was done with his drinking, but we have since talked about it. The first few weeks were difficult, but things are fairly normal now. Best of luck to you and your family!