Hi, Goldengirl. Yes, it's sad when someone who was a big part of our lives moves on. But, the thing you have to remember is he [I]chose[I] to continue his dysfunctional ways rather then to change so that he could be with you. It was his decision, so it's for the best. It's gonna hurt awhile, but it really is true that time, but above all prayer to God heals all wounds.