Originally Posted by
Shirt423 
I started seeing someone shortly after they were out of a relationship and I now know of his alcohol addiction. I never thought he was manipulating me. Do they always lie about their feelings? I'm just confused if it is something worth fighting for or not. I've been through a lot lately with him and he always assures me that I am the love of his life and that if he loses me now he will spend the rest of his life looking for me. Is this all just BS?
Nobody can really say if he means it or not,how long have you been with him?
My ex used to say the same kind of things and that was after a couple of weeks! I found it a bit too intense and it worried me at the time,although it didnt stop me continuing for another 2yrs. But then your guy might be different and really mean it!But do you want that kind of intense love/neediness?
Ghirl xx