Welcome! Thank you for sharing your story. There are tons of us here, who have dealt with alcoholic spouses and every form of mayhem that accompanies it.
I fell in love with my AW over a tequila bottle. We were in our mid-20's. It was normal socializing as far as I could tell, but then she drank more and more, until a DWI and siezure 8 years into our marriage. Now 8 years later, we are filed for divorce.
I'm sorry for your circumstances and I really do think that any situation can get better. Hang in there.