Nope... I need his income to help may the bills/rent etc... I only work part time. School takes a majority of my time, I hate that I don't have a lot of time w/ my kids now but they know it's for them too and they aren't really young. they have adjusted well.
It's RAH that hasn't.
I knew he would up the ante...and he has.
Now he's saying he's thinking about quitting AA.
I asked him why he felt that way and he said it was probably because they weren't telling him what he wanted to hear.
No way...REALLY?! (note the sarcasm in my typing..lol)
But I
DID NOT react. I responded, appropriately I hope. Not sure.
I just told him that was his decision to make. It was up to him to decide what was best for him in his life and it was not my place to judge what he does or does not do.
He was not delighted. he expected me to freak out.
He wanted to know why I didn't care since it would affect me too and I let him know that it would NOT affect me. It wasn't my business and I wasn't going to get sucked in.
I'm following MY program because even if I don't agree w/ everything I have seen that it works. I can have a happy fulfilled life and I want that bad enough to do anything and everything they tell me to do w/out question.
It is not my place to decide what he does.
He got off the phone very quickly.
I feel like I'm detaching...and it feels good!!
