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SoloMio BUT, I don't get how your attending a meeting in a different room, albeit same time, same location, would somehow compromise HIS ability to do his thing in AA, unless you were holding a glass up to the wall so that you could hear what he was saying.
LOL! Thanks for the laugh... like I said, I don't understand his behavior; I am not the alcoholic, I am just the crazy spouse. And you know, I wouldn't want to hear what he is saying any way. I really don't care much anymore.
I am amazed at how uncomfortable I am right now at the idea, yet it would be more convenient for my schedule. But after years of run-ins where I got my head cut off for doing the "wrong" thing, I am really touchy about boundaries. I don't know where his are, until I get my head cut off when I cross one and the electric fence is on - full strength!