Mine came out, I let him stay w us. He is ungrateful and sliding toward relapse everyday.
I am having trouble getting him to leave and today, at least, I feel like everyday that I go on in this mess takes away from the happy life I deserve.
Even the process of realization that he deserves!
If you know for sure, then I would do what you can to act on it. Lay it out there.
I am speaking from experience, here. I am in the storm, and I want out.
I know you know what I mean. and mine is physically sober.