I can't get over how similar I feel about my SO.
He is sober.
He does what ever he wants, whenever.
Seems to feel no pressing obligation to our son, who asks him constantly to come home and "see" him.
He does act just like he is living in a hotel.
My problem: he is mentally unstable, not attending meetings, and I have asked him to leave march 1, but I see no signs of even looking.
My part of it: I am afraid if I get aggressive about it, w no program in place, no sponsor, no meds, that he will just go straight to drinking and couch surfing.
Shouldn't feel like my problem but it does