I : dad who physically left me (abandonment)
mom in evasion (depression)
XABF : dad in evasion (other women & no attention to his kids)
mom who died and left him years ago
Ugh... I always had this feeling, this commonality with him, in that he was as hurt as mine. We are like puzzle pieces, incredible how we attract each other unconsciously... that is why real recovery is so slow......!