Originally Posted by
StarCat 
What is it with A's having to have everyone else involved in their drama? Whenever I tried to
not get involved he told me I didn't know the meaning of the word "empathy," I must worship the devil because I certainly didn't worship
his God or I'd be completely upset and ready to jump of a balcony because of the hard time he was going through, I must have
caused it so it was my fault and I had to fix it, I must be
happy that he's dying because of this terrible event, etc, etc, etc.
I had a couselor tell me one time that alcoholics acutally love to create drama and have it all revolve around them. I am glad to hear you are detaching as I am sure it will have a wonderful effect on you. I am trying to do the same and it's a challenge everyday.