I was in a rush headed out the door..that should read anyone who easily adjusts to insanity isn't well...at least that is my theory. Put a sane person in a crazy situation and they will wind up acting crazy. Sometimes the crazy sneaks up on you too! That frog in the hot/boiling water syndrome.
Imagine yourself with someone who doesn't criticize, find fault with you or try to change you.
Someone who is dependable and loyal to you. Doesn't flirt around, drink or go hang out all the time without you or take you for granted.
Someone who accepts you and loves you for who you are.
Someone who is supportive of you.
That is doable, it really is!
But we also have to be that person too if it is what we want.
I didn't get that and I tried to be that at first but before too very long I was just as critical of him as he was of me.
In fact, there wasn't much stable..I either loved him crazily or hated him crazily.
I am too old for that kind of "excitement" anymore! LOL
I will take stable.
I love being able to make plans for 2 weeks and know that we are both going to be still getting along and do what we planned! Revolutionary! hahahahaha