Like Freud said, 'sometimes a cigar is just a cigar'.
and as a drunk (me) once said, "sometimes a drunk is just a drunk."
why I didn't pick up on someone's alcoholism sooner and why I let things go so long.
maybe this is what you seek. why didnt i see it? and if i did sense it somehow, why did i let it go on?
i know that i have no tolerance for it now. none.