Geez are we married to the same man!!
I've decided to talk with a lawyer and get financial things in order before I talk to him. I did some research online - I live in Ontario, Canada and if I understand it right I may have to pay him spousal support. Income equalization thing? If I end up having to pay him support for extra booze money I will ... I dont know what I'll do. That would really kill me. Wont fret about it now/wait until I get the facts.
I'm starting to feel angry with him that due to his choices our lives cant continue together and so much of what we've worked for, planned for, will be lost.