I hear ya.. I saw a little of the old me in that thread. I'm (supposedly lol) intelligent with oodles of common sense and yet that completely deserted me when it came to being with my A. I formulate argument for a living, so imagine how difficult it would have been for anyone to get through to me :O
Instead of feeling frustrated or sad, I kinda felt a sense of how far I have come... and it was a little reminder that I should always be open to listening, even if I don't want to.
Tx