Old 02-12-2011, 08:47 PM
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TakingCharge999
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Yes duqld the issues with mine started when I moved in with him.

They have to leave to feel better mentally and physically. They will leave at all costs. More times then not they bring another woman into the mix as a way of letting the Love Addict know “it’s over.”

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At the end of the relationship the Love Addict begins to “bomb” the Avoidance Addict with emails, phone calls and letter.

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In her mind she remembers the way he was in the beginning and she wants that fantasy and romance back at any cost.

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Many Love Addicts have done some desperate things to try and recapture those fantasy moments. Sometimes, in a last ditch effort, they attempt suicide only to find out the Avoidance Addict could care less.

Yes, I started having suicidal thoughts. Wow.

If you are a Love Addict you can change.

Love Addicts need to face the fact that an Avoidance Addict, without a lot of counseling, never changes.


XABF laughed at counseling.
I have changed a lot these last 2 years. He is still the same. Or worse.


"Avoidance is opposite to maturity"... so so true....




Oh well I am posting the whole article here... lol... I am shocked as how accurate these articles are!!
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