Originally Posted by
wicked 
This is what I told myself over and over invisigoth.
I am only hurting myself. Who cares? I dont.
I was silent, completely silent.
I had no abusive problems either, but i was just a body taking up space.
If you are not there emotionally you are not doing the
whole job of being a spouse or a mother or whatever it is.
Wonderful news on your ten days invisigoth!
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I agree wholeheartedly!
Invisigoth: "I'm an alcoholic and I'm not abusive to anyone, except perhaps myself. I don't yell at or hit my wife nor am I mentally abusive to her or anyone else in my life. Alcoholism and its effects are relative to the person."
Have you ever asked your wife? I wonder if she or any other relationships you are in would agree with you?