Originally Posted by
Learn2Live 
My rockbottom was what got me into Recovery. Not what got me out of the relationship with the alcoholic addict. That came some time after I started working on my self.
Here's a good thread from
WhyAmIStaying that I think speaks to your post
duqld :
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ce-action.html Good point, L2L. Like trying to make sense of my AH never works and leaves me spinning.
When I think of my recovery and try to make good choices, I move away from him, but not because of him, but because of me and what seems best for me and that DOES make sense.