come on, Suki. Don't go. Stay in the thread. I think I rub you the wrong way because you think I'm controlling, but that's the only way to go when your well-being is on the line: "shape up, or you're gone". You cannot EVER tolerate the drunk.
I think that if the majority of you would have done that, you wouldn't have suffered as much. I know it's hard when you get involved and I really appreciate that you guys want to save me from that.