Takingcharge, that's what I normally do. I normally date guys who are jocks, into health and that kind of stuff, as I try to lead a healthy lifestyle. But, I also need a Christian.
I did voice those concerns to a mutual friend and like I posted, she said, "nobody's perfect". I always have this what-if mindset. Always had it. So, i don't know, I'm just wondering at this point, not having a first date alone with him yet, how much of a problem is there really. I don't want to pass up a loving guy that could be my soulmate if there are changes he would be willing to make for me, but ultimately they are for his own good.
Still would be interested in knowing why Cyranoak thinks I'm not for real...Am I the only one who has come to this forum hoping that a love interest is not an alcoholic??