I'll put it differently for you...
he is an alcoholic. alcoholism is a progressive disease. it will get worse. if you'd like to pursue a relationship with an alcoholic, then he's your man. if not, not. God keeps sending people to tell you this, yet you continue to ignore them.
i'll admit that I didn't even think your first post was real. i thought it was somebody baiting us here in the forum. i still think in might not be real, but in case you are being serious, then know you are taking the first steps into what will be the worst moments of whatever life God has decided to grant to you.
good luck.
Cyranoak