Hi Suki-that was me who said the part about "con-men and con-women"!......Sometimes, looking back I feel like my XABF was an identity theft conman. He pretended to be someone who he wasn't and as a result of that, I lost who I was. HE TOOK MY IDENTITY! I let him but stupid identity theives....they should go on Dateline:To Catch an Identity Theft with Chris Hanson on NBC!!!