Originally Posted by
naive 
what does your daughter say about moving in with your parents?
independent of the possible bad influences in the house while you are away, your daughter would still be living with an active alcoholic, which is reason enough to want her safe and sound with your parents.
Agreed. It's progressive so you know it won't get any better. As far as other relationships this is all I will say: I consider myself a pretty sharp, smart person. I recently found out my STBXAW had more then one affair while we were married. I do not travel for work, and if I was not at work I was with her at home. Weekends we spent most of our time together. How she was able to have other relationships without me having the slightest idea is mind blowing. Of course now that I am learning more and more about alcoholism I am seeing they are experts at deceit and very cunning. They use your trust against you. If it were me, I would find a safe, stable environment for your child so you at least don't have to worry about that while you are oversees. Just my humble opinion.