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Old 02-09-2011, 12:49 PM
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Cyranoak
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Hi Chelle,

The forum prohibits giving legal advice, but I will tell you the best decision I made when I decided to divorce was to get a lawyer even though I didn't have the money. I begged and borrowed to get it, and worked out payments with my attorney.

It was worth every penny, and would have been worth ten times that.

Others will be along to chime in shortly, but please remember to vet everything you hear here with an attorney if it even smells of being legal advice.

Take what you want and leave the rest.

Good luck. I know this is hard. For me, as painful as it was for all of us, in retrospect it turned out to be a pivotal and positive moment for my wife, my daughter, and me. No guarantees, of course. Divorce doesn't solve all the problems, but it can give you the start and/or freedom you need to do just that.

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