Originally Posted by
StarCat 
I am so glad it all worked out!
I am also glad that your son had a happy birthday after all.
I'll confess I'm a little confused as to why he wouldn't tell you he was hosting the daycare when the idea first came up, but it all worked out for the best in the end.
wouldn't it be nice if people would always tell us what their motivations are. then we could make real and valid decisions.