But I think I'm finally seeing the big picture. Thanks so much for the advice.
this might sound trite, but in order to see the big picture, you might back up for a better view.
if he is still drinking during counseling, the counselor will probably not want to continue.
that kind of work cannot be done with someone who is chemically altered.
if you can get counseling for yourself, or go to AlAnon, that would help you tremendously.
Beth