It was so hard for me to understand my ex because I never knew for sure if he had a drinking problem or if he just liked to have a good time because he only drank on the weekends. I was torn. But from posting on this site and getting alot of helpful feedback from everyone I realized that he def was a binge drinker and couldnt control himself no matter how much i begged him to stop. Even if he stopped drinking all week, he was waiting until the weekend to get out of control. He is only 34 so I'm sure that eventually he might drink during the week as well. He is probably out right now getting drunk and I DONT HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT ANYMORE YAY!