Thank you all for listening. My family is so quick sometimes to thow out their opinons but it does help to "talk" to people who can relate. I have recently started Alanon, but only 3 meetings so far. I will be sure to continue and hopefully be able to open up.
My husband hides his drinking and always has. However, he has accepted he is an alcoholic and knows he has a problem. I have supported him through detox, rehab and counselors. He goes to AA EVERY single night but still drinks. We turned to church and he willing turned his life over to God, but he still drinks. I'm not sure that there is anything else I can do.