Welcome, so glad you have found us. There is so much wisdom, support and experience here.
First and foremost, you must take care of yourself and your children. There is nothing you can do about your H as long as he is actively drinking. Al Anon has been very helpful for me as well, but if you are concerned about leaving your children alone with your H, who may be drinking, there are on line meetings as well.
Read and post here...wiser folks than me will be along.
Sending positive thoughts your way
