Originally Posted by
DMC Of course, he didn't remember it, but it felt good.
I'd say, if you're going to "let off steam" and tell an alcoholic everything that's bothering you in a relationship, it's probably best to do it at a time when he won't remember a word you said.
You'll feel better because you did it, and he won't have a memory of you baring your soul and listing your hurt to use to manipulate.