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Old 02-06-2011, 08:30 AM
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jamaicamecrazy
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I finally realized he just wants to be left alone in his bubble of beer, cigarettes and computer.

Thanks Chelle, I really needed to read that. My husband's father just died and I was frantic because I did not know what that might trigger and because I wanted to be there for him. All I could do was to tell him I was here if he needed me. He has not answered any of my texts. When I spoke to my daughter she said she had spoken to him and offered to go out to dinner with him and he said that while he appreciated the gesture he just wanted to be alone with his thoughts.
Your words help me put many things in perspective. He wants his bubble. He has cut so many people out of his life and I feel sad for all he is giving up but wow-these are HIS choices. It is all part of the disease isn't it?
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